Hi everyone! i need help plz?

ok well to start my story i am 20 years old i just moved out of my moms house with my boyfriend soon to be husband we moved to m from tenn when we first moved here i was so happy i did everything around the house and i was looking for a job but for about 3 weeks now i have been sick i had to go to the hospital and found out i had a kidney inffection well that went away and then i started hurting under my ribs on right side to the point where i didnt want to do anything went back to the hospital and they did an ulter sound on my gallbladder and it was ok i just had pulk in it they said it comes and goes but i still keep hurting in the same spot well i am not hurting to the point where i want to scream but it seems it is taking over my life i just want things to go back the way they were before and i want to beilive that there is nothing wrong with my gall bladder because i dont want it taken out i have never had surgrey and dont want to and i have a cyct on my ovary but i am getting a obgyn for that i go to the doctor tommorow and i am really really scared because i think they are going to tell me i have to have surgrey and i dont want to i just want things to o back to normal i need to get a job to help my boyfriend and having surgey will mess that up and also i am so so so scared of being put to sleep i am scared i wont wake back up plz help me!