Are there any REAL dating sites out there?

I am getting sick and tired of going to various dating sites [Match.com, True, etc] and getting bots pretending to be women, gold diggers, or scam artists! Are there any real dating sites out there with REAL women????? And please don't tell me 'the right one will come along'- I'm 45 now and have been waiting for 'the right one' since the age of 21!